Tuesday, April 20, 2010

A letter to...2

Dude:

Hey Silly Child…9.45 pm…this moment…start thinking what for I have to make myself so tired…keep on working…organise…planning…trying to switch my attention…at the end…what for actually? Juz simply trying to…? Im confuse…3rd day of having serious flu…it starts affect my thinking turn negative…^ And I still plan my hiking trip and birthday celebration for my friends …at last…flu getting serious…get myself more tired…headache seriously…nice…^Silly Child…I just decided something else…hope it is the right decision for you in the future…and dun blame me for breaking your principle…I did think for few weeks…Time to slp…juz wan to temporary get out of the reality…Silly Child…u r 4getful…hope this is your advantage at this period…^

You

20 April 2010

Thursday, April 15, 2010

Man And Woman

Juz read my friend blog…and find out there was a funny post...spent sometime to convert from Chinese to English Version…It is suitable for any guys and gals when they r in relationship…

For Girl: Chk it out whether yo bf did the same thing to you…^

For Guy: Learn to be smart in treating yo gf…^

1.He always unconsciously calls your nickname (dear/honey)…

Men normally are not easily expose their feeling to others…It is due to they are better in controlling their feeling and emotion than women…There is only thing for them to express when something warm and touch their heart indeed…then only will express the feeling…If they always call your nickname only the time when u are asking…it means they may not love you deeply…if they do…the are forced to…Conversely…if they always call you nickname unconsciously…It means they are really love you from the bottom of their heart…

2.When you both are shopping…most of the time he will notice your things or his?

If you wan to know whether your man really loving in you…notice whether he put attention on you when you are shopping…did he help you to pick the clothes for you? Did he always looking at you and join together with you to pick nice clothes…? If so…definitely…he does Love you…Conversely If he is only looking at the other man’s clothes or the other gals…his love was not real to you…

3.He prefers stay at home accompany you or find his own entertainment…?

If he used to accompany you watch movie…online…chatting…during his leisure time…then…he must be treated you like a diamond…Conversely…If he prefer be alone and online at home…eat alone…shop alone…rather than hangout with gf…means the relationship is fading…

4.When the time you make a mistake…he is console you 1st…or blame you 1st?

When the time u make a mistake…u must be the one who hurt and feel bad…if he know how to cheer u up…protect you…cuddle you in his arms and console you…treat you like a kitty and tell you where you make a mistake…he is definitely your prince...but if he just keep blaming you without asking the reason…and interrogate you…mean his is not put you as his priority…

5.Did he take initiative to talk to you about his family…?

If your man always hides his family member or family issue from you…and dun mention about it to you at all…mean he may not truly love in you…at least he love you not deeper enough…Conversely…if he just tell you everything about his family…habits…family member…its mean he did regard you as one of his family member…

6.When he Is coping with his bad habits…he is looking for a lots of excuses to defence himself or correct it?

Man always gt lots of bad habits that woman cant be ignored and be patient such as smoking…if the time u complaint and advise him…he can try not to smoke frequently in front of you and correct it…mean you mean lots to him…Conversely…if he dun even care to what you said…and even find lots of excuses…means you r not the one he love the most…coz he dun even care about his health and dun bother the smoke will hurt his partner’s health as well…

This is Chinese version as i grab from my fren's blog...Have fun..^

1.他无意识的经常叫你昵称

男人的情感一般不经常外露,因为他们的克制力比女人要强的多,只有在触动他最深处的时候,才会不由衷的表露出来。如果他总是在你的央求下才每天暧昧 的叫着你的昵称,那么,他不一定是爱你的,即使爱你,也有很多的受迫感;如果他总是在你毫无防备的情况下出乎意料的叫你的昵称,那么,他一定是爱你很真 的,有时候真的甚至让他情不自禁和不分场合。

2.逛街的时候是先留意你的还是先注意他的

男人逛街,多半是提款机和陪步机,虽然有的也是逛街狂,但大部分都是女人拉上街的。所以看他是不是真的爱你,就看他在你看衣服、试衣服的时候眼睛朝 哪个地方,如果他眼睛总是溜溜的朝着美女和男人品牌望去,那肯定心不在焉,爱你不一定是真;如果目不转睛的盯着你,而且对你试穿情况有可行性意见,那么, 毫无疑问,是爱你的。

3.在家中习惯陪你还是习惯自娱自乐

如果他总是习惯于在有空闲的时候陪着你,看电视,上网,聊天,那么,他一定将你视若珍宝;如果他只管一个人上网,一个人吃泡面,一个人外出挫麻将, 那么,你们的爱情可能更多的已经向亲情开始转移,又或者,你们的爱品淡了。

4.你犯错的时候是先安慰你还是先抱怨你

你犯错的时候一定是最委屈,最难过的时候,如果他懂得怜惜和爱护你,会将你揽入怀中,然后轻轻的安慰你,待你如小猫一样安静乖巧的时候他再告诉你错 在哪里;如果他只是不问缘由的一味抱怨你,而且对你进行质问,那么,他的内心一定不是以你为主的。

5.是否主动和你谈及他的家人、家事

男人好强,是天性,但再好强的男人在他最心爱的女人面前也会有最柔弱的一面,如果他在你面前对自己的家人、家事总是讳莫如深,避之不及,那么他一定 不是真爱你的,至少,爱你爱的不够深;如果他对你毫无保留的告诉你他的家人、家事,甚至还和你饶有兴趣的谈及他家的宠物,那么,他已经将你作为未来家庭中 的一份子。

6.对自己的不良嗜好是狡辩还是改正

男人身上多少有女人不能容忍的缺点和毛病,比如抽烟,如果你对他的抽烟行为进行抱怨和反对的时候,他能做到不在你面前抽或者少抽点,那么,你在他心 中的分量不轻;如果他对你的话不以为然,而且还拿出一大堆到来进行狡辩,那么,他一定不是最爱你的那个,因为他不仅不爱惜自己的身体,同样不顾及你这个吸 二手烟的亲密爱人。

Monday, April 12, 2010

A Letter to….

Dude:

Hey…Silly Child…this is the worst thing u ever heard all this time right? I dun know when u gonna open your blog and read the post again…but…before you directly skip it…just listen and finish this post…12 april 2010 at 21.54pm…I decide write this msg to you…Yes…Silly Child…this is the WORST to describe you…n u know that as well…maybe this is not worst part…^the Worse part is…it is Truth…but….past…dun keep it in mind…u try yo best…u know that…4gt everything u had….EVERYTHING…even u hurt…and feel wanna die at this time…there is no fairy tale relationship…there is not everyone 1st relationship can maintain till the wedding…maybe have it…I heard it…from yo fren RL…maybe there is only 1 couple out of 10 can make it…but Congrate…U r not the lucky 1…Silly Child….Time to Wake Up...really…time to wake up…^^At least u experience the truth of reality…at least u learn lots ways to treat other(although still fail)…at least you experience how to love and be in love…enough d…Pls…from now onwards…try to be nice to other…U r nothing…so dun act smart…learn from mistake ba…its suck…but this is Life…hope u can read this b4 u depart to UK…throw anything away…dun bring It to UK…it is time for you to pack all yo things and mood before that…Dun 4gt yo dream…Event Planner…^Wish you still remember the motivation behind that…yes…the motivation is faded…but…find it bec ba^^ March and April 2010 are the tough months i ever had…Relationship…Work…Relationship…Health…all problems come to me at the same time…and the worse is…I cant lets anyone know…cant even tell eX…haha…few more weeks to go…going to be more tough enough…^


Remember thx Stevy…most important person in your life…she is the 1st phone you and care you after that…love her always^^Ck for his romantic idea(damn helpful)…thx RL for his physical support you during rushing project…Thx AJ for consult you(like her thinking)…MZ for his consolation…he is the 2nd to care you…2 sentences but enough d..really really enough d…


Now…I just need some time…no…maybe lots time to recovery…anyway…dun expect me like a computer that can clean everything with 1 click…im human being K!!!…Wish the time u read this…U are smiling and Laughing to yoself y will you write this to yoself…instead…still recovery from hurt…Fucker…im just encourage U summore at this tough moment!!! Time to stop it…Dude…be Tough…

You

12 April 2010

Monday, April 5, 2010

Xperience...

Finally…end of my job… 8.30am start depart from home and reach home at 11.30…==’’’…15hours for continuous 4 days….really a challenging job… learn lots…experience lots…tired lots as well…physically and mentally…but during this 4 days period…finally I made a decision and decide my career…I found a direction where to go…one of the reason was I was interested in this job…another main reason was……..?i hope this main reason can keep motivating me till last…but does it possible…?Anyway…This few days communicate lots with public…gain lots knowledge there…look and observe every couple walk by in front of me…from 3rd party point of view…they may not as beautiful and charming enough… but they definitely are from their partner point of view…hold their partner hand tight…smile together…play together…took photo together…juz start thinking…are there juz start their relationship…?No…so how will they still so close to each other…I Confused….

Know some funny guys…when the last day end of our job….before we left…we dint leave each other contact number or msn…maybe it was enough to know them for few days…when knew someone longer…we can see lots weakness from each other…so sometime it was really enough to know for few days…Got to know a girl? Erm…juz 1...but not intend to leave contact method to her other as well…y? because…it was not necessary…

My working place more like a play ground rather than working environment…joke around with foreign guy…realise they are quite well educated…polite…friendly…respectful…start wont feel afraid to talk with them anymore…

This few days…face lots and lots problems…not from working place but from……..know I can experience deeply that working life will really cause someone thinking become so negative…hmmp…but seriously…I still can adapt to my working life and find myself a reason to be optimism still…how…think of something happy? Its stupid way…but for me it works…think of something…plan of something…brainstorming something…keep all this things in my mind…how come I gt this time…?Yes…at working place…I really busy…technically it did not have time for myself at all…but I create it…walking…break time…waiting…on board…after work….lots and lots as long as I was not at my position…Work really cause me tired….and think of those things are the only way to distress and cheer me up so far…juz realise all this time I still gt lots thing not yet done to…..…?start learn to be smart…planning every single detail thing on that…everything was well planning…but do I still gt opportunity to implement that…who knows…==’’’…

Anyway…1.29pm now and im hungry and faint faint dei and sit in front of the computer….have to start a new day and start my work up plan…bless me ba…^